Tip: “Has something happened?” That’s not the right question.
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Hailey Heimbach
on Wednesday, January 15, 2025
Tip: “Has something happened?” That’s not the right question.
Katie Mogg and Catherine Pearson, writing in the New York Times, about friendship breakups, have some good advice that can also be used in business situations. What to do when a friend starts ghosting you, or initiates a slow fade until all communication grinds to a halt?
If you choose to reach out, avoid making it A Big Deal. “I haven’t heard back from you, is there something wrong?” That puts the other person in an awkward position, suggesting conflict where there may be none.
A slight tweak, such as the one suggested by Barbie Atkinson, a professional counselor, is to say this: “I’ve noticed we’ve been less connected lately, and I’m wondering how you’re doing?” This approach can help "make room for open dialogue."
You can make the question seem more casual
if you share an interesting or meaningful update on yourself as well.
Sometimes simply getting back on someone’s radar is important. Do it in a non-pressure way.
SHEPA LEARNING COMPANY WEEKLY POSITIVE NETWORKING® TIP
No. 1096, January 8, 2025
By Gayle Hallgren and Judy Thomson
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General
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